Matching anonymous website visitors to physical mailing addresses – how it’s done

What If You Could Send Mail to Website Visitors? Now You Can.

Mailing letter with wax seal to old postbox on street

It is possible to match anonymous website visitors to physical mailing addresses and it's being done by a growing number of offline retargeting or direct mail automation services. Here's how it works—and what makes it both technically viable and legally sensitive

🔍 How Matching Anonymous Website Visitors to Physical Addresses Works

1. IP Address Capture

When someone visits your website, your site (via JavaScript snippet or tracking pixel) captures their IP address.

  • The IP address can often be correlated to a household or business-level location.
  • ISPs assign IPs in geographic blocks, and consumer-level IPs can often be narrowed down to within a neighborhood or single home.

2. Data Partner Matching

The real magic happens via third-party data providers who maintain massive databases linking:

  • IP addresses
  • To household addresses
  • Using past behavior, subscription data, public records, cookies, and more

These partners have permission-based databases built from people who’ve opted into offers, rewards programs, online orders, etc., linking digital footprints to physical identity.

3. Match Confidence Scoring

The data provider returns a “match confidence score”. If it’s above a certain threshold (say 95%), the service will:

  • Send a triggered direct mail piece (like a postcard or catalog)
  • To the matched physical address
  • Often within 24–48 hours of the website visit

4. Privacy-Compliant Direct Mail

The mail is sent without the visitor ever filling out a form or explicitly opting in—though companies justify this under the umbrella of "legitimate interest" or pre-existing data relationships, depending on the legal jurisdiction.

 

✅ Is It Legal?

In the U.S., yes—but with caveats:

  • There's no federal privacy law as strict as the EU’s GDPR or California's CCPA.
  • However, CCPA requires consumers to be notified and given the chance to opt out if personal data is being sold or shared.

These services often rely on pre-permissioned data sources and use fuzzy match logic. For example, they may say:

“This household was interested in X and visited our site—send them a mailer.”

They don’t always identify exact names — just the address.

⚖️ Pros and Cons

✅ Pros:

  • No email or phone number required
  • Fast delivery (same week as visit)
  • Higher open rates than email (postcards are hard to ignore)
  • Great for high-ticket or local offers (e.g., real estate, home services, luxury products)

❌ Cons:

  • May feel creepy to consumers
  • Can be expensive (often \$0.50–\$1.50 per piece)
  • Accuracy isn't perfect (some false positives)

 

🔒 What You Need to Implement It

  • Add a script to your website (like a pixel or JS tag)
  • Work with a provider who has a large IP-to-household database
  • Define your target audience and creative assets
  • Ensure you're following privacy regulations and offer opt-outs

 

🚀 Use Cases

  • Car dealerships: Send brochures to visitors who viewed a vehicle page
  • Home improvement: Mail coupons to households that browsed your service page
  • E-commerce brands: Retarget cart abandoners with physical offers
  • Real estate: Send listings to visitors of property pages

Can you also target visitors to websites you don't own with direct mail?

Can You Target Visitors to Websites You Don’t Own with Direct Mail?

Yes, you can target visitors to websites you don’t own with direct mail — but only under certain conditions. This is known as third-party intent-based direct mail or behavioral direct mail.

How It’s Done: Direct Mail to Visitors of Other Websites

1. Data Aggregators Track Web Activity at Scale

Large data firms (like Oracle, Acxiom, LiveRamp, and Lotame) partner with ad networks, browser extensions, mobile SDKs, and cookie-based trackers. These tools let them observe behavioral patterns across thousands of websites — not just your own.

For example: A person visits HomeAdvisor.com looking for roofers. That intent signal is captured via cookies or a device ID.

2. Matched to an Identity Graph

The visitor’s digital activity is matched to an identity graph that connects:

  • IP address
  • Cookies and device IDs
  • Email addresses (via hashed emails from logins or loyalty programs)
  • Physical home address

3. Advertisers Buy Intent Data

As an advertiser, you can license or subscribe to these intent segments. For example, “people actively researching solar panels.” You can further filter by location, income, or household size, and then send direct mail to qualified addresses — all without ever seeing the original website behavior.

Real-Life Use Cases

  • A mortgage broker targets people who visited Zillow, Redfin, or LendingTree.
  • A solar company mails brochures to households that visited 3+ solar information pages.
  • A car dealer retargets individuals who recently browsed Edmunds, CarGurus, or local dealership sites.

Limitations and Requirements

Factor Explanation
Yes, It’s Possible If you use a data provider that tracks cross-domain behavior.
Not a DIY Tactic You can’t just pick a site and get its visitors — this data is purchased.
Not 100% Accurate Matching is probabilistic and may be less accurate on mobile, VPN, or private browsers.
Privacy Compliance Required Must use permission-based or compliant data under CCPA or GDPR.
Not Cheap You’ll pay per match plus print and mailing costs.

Types of Behavioral Triggers You Can Target

  • Website categories (e.g., travel, real estate, health)
  • Keyword search behavior (e.g., “teeth whitening kits”)
  • Cross-domain pixel activity
  • Social behavior overlays (e.g., interests or follows)

Summary

You can target visitors to websites you don’t own — but only if:

  • You’re working with a third-party data provider that collects cross-site intent signals.
  • You use a direct mail platform that supports identity resolution and automation.
  • You target behavioral segments rather than individual websites by name.

This approach can be a powerful way to reach high-intent audiences offline — especially in industries where email targeting or digital ads aren’t enough.